When society tried to comprehend the case of Jeffrey Dahmer, the cannibalistic serial killer convicted of murdering 17 boys and men from 1978 to 1991, criminologists turned to his mother, Joyce Dahmer, for insight.Joyce FlintJeffrey Dahmers mother Joyce Dahmer along with Jeffrey (left) and her other son, David.Did she create an environment that fostered this behavior? Was there anything she could have done differently? Did her own addictions play a role in turning a veritable monster loose?This is the true story of Joyce Dahmer a woman whose story is either tragic or enraging, depending on who and what you believe about Jeffrey Dahmers childhood.Joyce Dahmers Role In Young Jeffrey Dahmers LifeFamily PhotoJoyce Dahmer holding her son, Jeffrey Dahmer.Joyce Flint was born on February 7, 1936, in Columbus, Wisconsin. Her parents, Floyd and Lillian, were of German and Norwegian ancestry. She also had a younger brother, Donald, who died in 2011.Its unclear when she got married to Lionel Dahmer, but the two had their first son, Jeffrey Dahmer, on May 21, 1960, in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.To classify the Dahmer family as an all-American family would be a bit of a misnomer. By Lionels own admission in his memoir, A Fathers Story, the family unit was anything but a happy one. RedditJoyce Dahmer with infant Jeffrey Dahmer.Because Lionel was busy with his own doctoral studies, he was often absent from the Dahmer house. And Joyce Dahmer, according to Lionel, was far from an ideal mother. He alleged that she was on prescription drugs while pregnant to Jeffrey, and was mentally unstable after she gave birth to him.As a scientist, [I] wonder if [the] potential for great evil resides deep in the blood that some of us may pass on to our children at birth, he wrote in the book. He also alleged that his now-former wife was a hypochondriac who suffered from depression, spent increasing amounts of time in bed, and refused to touch baby Jeffrey for fear of contracting germs and diseases.FacebookAn undated family photo featuring Lionel Dahmer with his sons David (left) and Jeffrey (right).But Joyce Dahmer had a very different story. In 1993, after Jeffreys 17 murders had come to light, she gave an interview to MSNBC wherein she challenged the narrative about her son. Despite his fathers claims that during Jeffrey Dahmers childhood he was shy and timid, Joyce claimed that there were no warning signs of what Jeffrey would ultimately become. And she also claimed that after he was sentenced, he became fatalistic about his prospects.Public DomainJeffrey Dahmer killed 17 people before his capture in 1991.I always asked if he was safe, she told People Magazine. Hed say, It doesnt matter, Mom. I dont care if something happens to me.'Jeffrey Dahmers Mother Wrestles With Her Sons Grisly LegacyOn Nov. 28, 1994, a fellow inmate and convicted murderer named Christopher Scarver beat Dahmer to death with a metal bar in the prison bathroom, alongside fellow inmate Jesse Anderson. According to Scarver, Jeffrey seemed to accept his fate. The same, however, cannot be said for Jeffrey Dahmers parents especially his mother, Joyce Dahmer, who was racked with guilt about all her son had done.I still love my son. Ive never stopped loving my son. He was a beautiful baby. He was a wonderful child. He has always been loved, she said at the time.Family PhotoJoyce Dahmer in a family photo.Jeffreys father, however, was a little less sanguine about his sons legacy. It is a portrayal of parental dread the terrible sense that your child has slipped beyond your grasp, that your little boy is spinning in the void, swirling in the maelstrom, lost, lost, lost, he wrote in his memoir.Joyce Dahmer reportedly spoke to her son at least once a week from prison according to the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel. I said to him, I asked him, `Do you still have these urges?' Jeffrey Dahmer said, Yes, Mom, Im so glad Im locked up. Id be afraid what Id do if I werent locked up.'After Jeffrey was killed in prison, Joyce Dahmer and her now ex-husband Lionel waged war in court. Joyce wanted her sons brain examined for any possible biological factors tying him to his murderous streak. Lionel, who objected, ultimately won out on his request. Jeffrey was ultimately cremated.I want something useful to come from this nightmare, she said, according to the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel. I havent seen one speck of light with all the horror that happened to everyone. Its the last and only thing I can do for Jeff. I want to make some, small usefulness for my own nightmare. Ive located experts who feel research on Jeffs brain could be useful.But as racked with guilt as Joyce was, Jeffrey didnt blame her or his father for the way he was. Carl Wahlstrom, a forensic psychiatrist who interviewed and evaluated Dahmer and served as an expert witness in his trial, said that the serial killer had nothing but good things to say about his parents. He said he had very loving parents, he said. [And] that blaming [his] parents for these issues was completely off the mark.The Tragic Story Of Joyce Dahmers Later Life And DeathWilliam JanzJoyce Dahmer after her sons arrest.Whether it was the fault of Jeffrey Dahmers parents or not, Joyce Dahmer felt guilty enough to attempt suicide. Just months before Jeffrey was killed in prison, Joyce Dahmer attempted to commit suicide via carbon monoxide poisoning.Its been a lonely life, especially today. Please cremate me I love my sons, Jeff and David, read her suicide note. Ultimately, she survived the attempt due to strong winds blowing carbon monoxide out of her garage. David Dahmer, for his part, wanted no part of his brothers notoriety. According to People Magazine, he changed his name and moved far away from his parents and brother, desperate to escape the legacy that his brother left behind.What few people were aware of, however, was that Joyce Dahmer had moved to the Fresno, California, area shortly before her son Jeffrey Dahmers crimes were uncovered.Contrary to her husbands assertion that she was an extreme germaphobe who dreaded disease, she worked with HIV and AIDS patients at a time when they were considered untouchable, and continued to work with him after her son was killed in prison.In fact, when she ultimately died of breast cancer in 2000, at the age of 64, Joyce Dahmers friends and colleagues told The Los Angeles Times that they preferred to remember her for the work she had done with the less fortunate. She was enthusiastic, and she was compassionate, and she turned her own tragedy into being able to have a great deal of empathy for people with HIV, said Julio Mastro, executive director of the Living Room, an HIV community center in Fresno.YouTubeJoyce Dahmer during an interview.But Gerald Boyle, who was another lawyer of Jeffreys, believed that despite her sons best efforts to absolve her of responsibility, she carried the guilt of his crimes and the memory of Jeffrey Dahmers childhood around with her for the remainder of her days.It was clear she bore no responsibility, he said. She had to live with the idea that she was the mother of a monster, and it drove her crazy.Now that youve read all about Jeffrey Dahmers mother Joyce Dahmer, read about Jeffrey Dahmers victims Konerak Sinthasomphone and Tracy Edwards.The post Inside Jeffrey Dahmers Childhood And The Tragic Life Of His Mother, Joyce Dahmer appeared first on All That's Interesting.